The following
year, Dorothy was again expecting her out-of-
town relatives for the holidays. She wanted to be able to
entertain them with a few treats but bemoaned her lack of
funds.
Again, I
shelved my pride. Again, I emailed and
called
friends. Again,
Dorothy's friends responded with generosity,
despite a downturn in the economy.
With the $300
we received, we bought a gift certificate to
the grocery store, slipped it in a card, and presented it
to her
a week before her relatives were due to arrive.
Tears gathered
in her eyes. "It's too much. It's too
much."
"It's exactly right," I said. "Exactly right for a special
friend."
We took
Dorothy shopping and encouraged her to splurge on a
few delicacies as well as the essentials for Christmas
dinner.
Chocolates and cherries.
Crabcakes and pasta salad. Sparkling
apple juice and eggnog.
All found their way into her shopping
cart.
She laughed
delightedly over every extravagance, pressed my
hand, then laughed again.
After the
holidays, she called and regaled me with stories
of her family's pleasure in the unexpected feast.
Sadly, Dorothy
passed away six months later. At the
funeral
service held in our church, her brother spoke and thanked
members
of the congregation for caring so tenderly for his
sister. Among
other things, he recounted the Christmas gifts.
I looked
around at the faces of those attending and saw the
same individuals and families who had contributed so
freely to
gifts for our dear friend.
Dorothy's
spirit lives on, and I imagine her in heaven
laughing at a joke and reminding me not to "drive
like an old
lady."
I say a
prayer, grit my teeth, and race down the street,
hoping Dorothy is proud of me.
Dorothy is proud of you, I have no doubt. This Christmas story reminds me of the year that she made the birthday cards for every sister in the ward. I'm not sure why it does. Maybe it's because when I received my card, I could see how much time, care, and love had gone into it. It was Dorothy all over.
ReplyDelete